I’m Lolita Frazier.  Ask me who I am or what I do and you’ll hear me say professional model, runway coach, pageant trainer, motivational speaker, life coach, and  confidence coach. Then in 2016 everything changed because my son was murdered.

He was my “sun”, my Laylo, my heart, my joy.  He was killed in an act of gun violence and it shattered my world.  I felt pain and so much anger. I lost hope and happiness.  I wanted to lash out and find justice. It crippled my ability to move on in my life. 

I realized that I was being held hostage by the trauma of my son’s death.  I had forgotten how to strut through life.  I had lost my ability to feel safe and in turn my confidence to be who I wanted to be.  

I used my skills and training as a runway model to turn my life around and Strut Talk emerged.  Now, in addition to runway coaching I specialize in self-confidence coaching for anyone who needs that extra push to get what they want out of life. I work with those who have suffered a trauma…any trauma…disabilities or illness, cancer, loss of a loved one, loss of a pet, personal injury or anxiety…if you are feeling emotional pain, I’m here to help you learn to strut through it and find joy on the other side.